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  • Writer's pictureAmanda Decker

Navigating Mother's Day with kiddos: When the little ones take the lead


Mother's Day, a special occasion dedicated to celebrating the remarkable women in our lives, evolves as our children grow. Initially, dads often take the helm, orchestrating the day's celebrations and choosing the perfect gift to express gratitude and love on behalf of their young children. But as kids age, a beautiful transition occurs—they begin to take on the responsibility themselves, adding their personal touch to the day.


There are some easy ways to navigate the journey of this transition. Here's some advice for dads and kids, including when and how children can start leading the charge on Mother's Day celebrations.


The Early Years (Ages 0-5): Dad as the Creative Director

In the early years of childhood, the responsibility of organizing Mother's Day falls squarely on Dad's shoulders. However, this doesn't mean it can't be a team effort.

Dad’s Role:

Idea Generator: Choose activities and gifts that allow little ones to be involved, even in a small way, like handprint art or picking flowers.

Logistics Coordinator: Plan the day's schedule, ensuring it's relaxed and enjoyable for Mom. Think breakfast in bed, a family outing, or a quiet day at home, depending on her preferences.


The Formative Years (Ages 6-12): Cultivating Involvement

As children enter school age, they start to form their own ideas and can contribute more significantly to the planning and execution of Mother's Day.

Dad’s Role:

Collaborator: Encourage your child to come up with gift and celebration ideas. Dad's job is to facilitate these ideas, helping to purchase supplies or coordinating secret missions to the store.

Educator: Use this as an opportunity to teach your children about budgeting, planning, and the importance of thoughtfulness. It’s about the gesture, not the price tag.



The Transition Age (Ages 13+): Passing the Baton

By the time children reach their teenage years, around 13, they're ready to start taking the lead on Mother's Day celebrations. This doesn't mean Dad steps back entirely; rather, his role shifts to that of a supporter and advisor.

Dad’s Role:

Advisor: Offer guidance and suggestions when asked, but allow your teen to make the final decisions on gifts and activities.

Safety Net: Be ready to step in if plans go awry or if your teen forgets the date (it happens!). You can gently remind them or help with last-minute arrangements, ensuring Mom still feels special on her day.


For All Ages: The Constant Role of Support

Regardless of the children’s ages, Dad’s enduring role is to support and facilitate a celebration that reflects appreciation and love for Mom. This includes:

Encouragement: Praise your children’s efforts and creativity. Encourage them to think about what makes Mom happy and to express their gratitude.

Tradition Keeper: Help create and maintain family traditions around Mother's Day that can be passed down, whether it's a special breakfast, a particular kind of flower, or a unique way of celebrating.


The journey from Dad as the primary organizer to children taking the lead on Mother’s Day is a beautiful transition that reflects growing maturity and appreciation. It’s not just about the gifts or the specific ways the day is celebrated; it’s about teaching children the value of showing appreciation and love for the important people in their lives. By guiding and supporting them through this journey, Dads play a crucial role in shaping how their children express gratitude and celebrate relationships, creating memories and traditions that last a lifetime.

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